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Beware of the tactics of a narcissist in a divorce

| Aug 25, 2020 | Uncategorized |

People who are narcissistic will stop at nothing to get their way. While this is hard enough to deal with in everyday life, it makes divorcing them even more complicated than what it has to be. If you’re facing a divorce with a narcissist, you need to ensure that you’re prepared for what’s coming. This may help you to keep your stress manageable during the process. 

Narcissists get their power and energy from the reactions of others. They like knowing that they’re controlling a situation and that the other person is suffering. In order to avoid giving them that power and energy, have your attorney handle all communication. This takes away your ex’s ability to see how their antics are impacting you. It also gives you the opportunity to consider your response before giving it. 

There’s very little chance that you’ll be able to resolve the divorce through collaborative methods like mediation. A person with narcissism isn’t able to compromise because it means they don’t get exactly what they want how they want it. This means that you’ll likely have to go through a divorce trial. 

Your ex might try to use that trial as a way to get to you. They may think that dragging it on is going to ruin you financially. You can combat this by planning for the expenses related to the divorce and managing your expectations.

As you’re working through legally ending the marriage, try not to let your ex control your mind. Take a step back when you need it. Your attorney can help you to explore your options and work through the divorce-related matters in a way that’s in your best interests.